mortified......see ya guy's

[Baza]

hi all.

i was on the sale social friday and recieved a phone call saying i had a new job on days i thought brilliant be able to spend time with the wife and kids.so rang the mrs to tell her the good news and how it would make our lives alot better, she sounded very differant and i was a little worried. so the next day i tried ringing her and got a txt back saying, i've took the kids away for abit were leaving you. i was gutted to bad i packed up and shot home finding a note and it saying i've treated her bad for the last couple of years i put fishing before my family, and i've lost the 3 most valuable things in my life.
she said there's no one else she just can't go on with life with me.
i think i know where she is because last week i seen a letter to her of a caravan park we used to goto and i would love to go there and find them and try to save my marrage but think it might make it worse so i'm gonna leave itbut and its a big but she had already been to a solicitors to file for divorse and there was a letter that took me about 6 hours to open and it was off them.
so i'm not gonna be on again and might have to give up fishing to save my marrage, its sad i realised it to late.

it's been good to chat over the years guy's take care of yourselfs and your family's


baz....................

[braidman]

Sorry to see you go mate but you've got your prioritys right you've got to put your family first.


see you around braidman

[Bet]

So sorry to hear your news matey its hard to find the words to say,I really hope you get things sorted,dont give up on your loved ones yet,theyre worth fighting for.
All the best
Bet

[Baza]

cheers mate i'm totally gutted i love fishing with a passion but i love my family more and if i have to give one up to save my family, i pick my family and will say bye to the fishing.

[daveabbott]

Nice meeting you mate on the social

Fishing is a hobby

Nothing else allways remember that

Its got such a passion that it pulls most people in leaving not much else to think about, allways try and remeber that work and family come first and allways will.

Good Luck Baz mate anyway

[Stig]

Wife and kids every time mate sorry to hear about your bad news .Have a good long chat with your lady if you get her back onside again mate take her out for a nose bag every now and then and just fish days if you fish at all

[Mutley]

I hope this isn't a twisted April fools

[Baza]

nah it's true mate, can anyone give me advice on if i'm allowed to get a council flat if the worse comes to the worse.as i really don't have a clue and have no family to fall back on.

sorry for putting it on this thread mods but it's the most read thread, you can move it if you want

[kevw]

Get your priorities right Baza, log off and get down to the caravan park. You should be speaking with the people that matter and not asking advice on the forum.

Best of luck.

[Mutley]

Sorry about that mate, you just never know with some people these days hat they will do to get a risse out of people.

[topgeezer18]

Bazza
I know we have never met but by what you are saying it sounds like your wife is giving you the chance to give it another go but its down to you mate if you know where she is and you really want it to work then give it a day to settle down and get yourself down the caravan park and let her know how you feel and that you will do your best to make it better.

Then its her call matey if it don't happen then just make sure you dont lose contact with your kids as they need a dad as well as a mum .I am talking from experience as my ex walked out on me when my daughter was 6 months old and i had done nothing wrong she just upped and went . But i have always been there for my daughter and she has now given me a grandson and a great son in law too . She has had her bad times with her mum and has always come to me for support so as long as you never let your kids down you will always be their dad .

if it's going to be a split then be ammicable and sort it out without bawling and shouting cos kids will see this and can side with one parent where as you want them to love you both no matter what happens between you .

good luck mate and i hope it all works out for the good
Topgezer18
Tony

[russ]

sorry to hear it m8 , i hope you can resolve things with her
maybe you could leave it for a while then try and reach a happy medium with her and prob not fish as much eh m8 ?
whatever else happens family does come first but you,ve also gotta remember that you have a life as well as her and if fishing is your life then there is no reason you cant maybe just take a small percentage of your time to spend on it rather than give it up completely !

[Callum91]

Whoa.. sorry 2 hear that mate, i hope you can resolve the problem, maybe just do a bit of fishing that way you will enjoy it more when you actaully get on the bank. Speak 2 ya soon mate.

Callum..

dont no what to say realy... first of all it has nothing to do with me at and i dont no you as a friend, so all i can is all the best mate im sure everybody on the forum wishes you well
cheers sam

[james_obrien]

thats terrible news mate and sorry to hear it. id gladly give up fishing to save my relationship with my family and im glad to see your willing to do that. good look with everything mate!